Weekly Wrap Up. Week 39. 2024. Turning up the heat in October and things are not always as they seem.

I managed to dodge the downpours last Sunday and along with the company of 3 dogs, went to watch my nephews playing rugby. I have always enjoyed being on the touchline and during their school careers, never missed a single match of either of my daughters. I vividly remember walking past a rugby match the year my eldest went up to senior school and being so grateful that I had daughters as the boys were smashing into each ohther with St John's ambulances on the sidelines... totally inappropriate and hypocritical of course as both I and offspring have had our own share of A&E sporting related dramas over the years.

It reminded me of the time I went to watch a school hockey tournament.  My daughter was goalie and I was used to seeing her kitted out like a Ninja Mutant Hero turtle, hidden somewhere behind several layers of padding. On this occasion, it was a big tournament over several pitches and I was cheering and supporting the goalie for a good 10 minutes before a man walked over and said "excuse me - but that's my daughter"... I looked him up and down and as he didn't look remotely familiar, decided it was safe to assume we didnt share her and slunk off to the next pitch where the one that belonged to me was just staring at me and to be fair, despite full face helmet and the rest, managed a quiet shake of her head and eye roll.. yup... the same mother who hadn't recognised the PM in Cornwall.


My point being that things are not always as they seem. What we assume can sometimes turn out to very different and it pays to keep an open mind. I have worked with  people over the years who are very much cardio/endurance focused and who have approached Pilates with some hesitation (much as I did when I first started), only to be staggered at how hard they worked (just as I did!!). Likewise those who insist that "they will be rubbish/not fit/cant do it" and have surprised and delighted themselves at what they have achieved. It is not always as it seems and sometimes keeping an open mind helps us to gain so much more.


I think it is fair to say that we are all guilty of expecting more of ourselves than is sometimes reasonable and possibly overlooking what we have actually accomplished. Let's talk exercise. If you are the high intensity type of fan, then you may very well surprise yourself with how hard you are challenged by doing something like Pilates that takes you slower and deeper than some of the cardio work. Maybe your energy levels are running low and you opt instead for some breath practise or meditation - this is totally the right thing to do. Either which way, despite your training plan or fitness expectations, skipping the odd session and substituting with something slower, quieter and more gentle will almost certainly give you more gain.


It is not dissimilar to our social life - sometimes we feel like painting the town red, sometimes we are looking forward to a lively dinner party and sometimes (most of the time in my case) we opt for a quiet night in on the sofa. It has taken me YEARS to realise that it is ok to say no thank you, Im staying home without feeling "I should/ought/must do".... If I don't go out and do that thing, I am missing out, I am being boring, I am letting someone down, I am letting me down, I am not making an effort... yet by choosing what might appear to be the boring/lazy/cop out option, I am actually achieving so much more. Learning to listen to our inner voice, and learning to be honest with ourselves is a very powerful lesson. Sometimes doing less is to achieve so much more. It may not appear to be what we need but then things are not always as they seem!


A couple of years ago, I searched for other Juliet Nicholas's on instagram and started following my namesake who is a horticulturist. For the next six months, I had a shock every time I saw a post of plants and flowers on "my" page, thinking "what ON EARTH is that doing there??".... things are not always as they seem!!


Here endeth the lesson!


We have been talking about the Septmeber reset and it has been great to see busy classes and to hear how many of you are also working through the library. We have hit Autumn hard with a variety of classes and attendance has been superb. 

That is why I thought we might turn up the heat in October. As the standard timetable remains, I bring to to you 

5 EXTRA CLASSES for the 5 DAY CHALLENGE


Starting Monday 7 October, I am running  a daily 7am class and invite you to join me. This will be 30 mins and each day will have a different theme. 

Monday will be a mix of "wake up and get moving " with some powerful mobilty and during the week, we will include Pilates, strength and weights. I am working on class plans and will put more info in next week but I challenge you to join me for 5 days. If you can't make the 7am, then how about you join any of the other classes but try to join every day for 5 days and better still, vary and try classes you have not done before. 

When my 6am alarm went off this morning I did question my sanity of adding even more to my schedule BUT if you can come and kepe me company, let's see what we can achieve together in 5 days and look forward to a stretchy, wind down weekend! (some of us are meeting for a walk on the Saturday so I thought the timing worked). 


DETAILS will be next week but please note that the 5 day challenge is open to everyone - subscibed members I will be sending you a zoom link.

Non members - come and join us FOC for the challenge  PLUS recording of all classes emailed out to you so please do invite friends to come and join us!  Non members please email me for zoom details. 


More info on the classes next Friday.




Sat 12th October walk and pub lunch. I have emailed everyone who has replied so if you were hoping to join us and haven't heard from me, please let me know asap as Clare is kindly booking the table and planning the walk. There will be a group doing a shorter walk if that suits better.



And finally… 


Two posts from this week that totally sum up what I preach endlessly .....


Muscles are the ultimate status symbol. They cannot be bought, inherited or faked. They can only be earned. In a world obsessed with instant gratification and immediate results, building a strong body takes patience, practise and consistent effort.


"Hey! Are you training for a bikini/summer holiday body?"..."Hell NO - I am training for an old lady body - dense bones, strong muscles, a healthy heart, good balance and functional independence"


Amen! Have a fabulous weekend



Jx



By juliet May 8, 2025
So that was a busy weekend. As Lou and Clare were coming to the end of an epic 100km run around the Isle of Wight I was settling in for an early night before taking my bike over to ride the 100km the following day. I have never seen so many bikes - the ferry we were on had only 2 cars and otherwise it was wall to wall bikes with a lot of lycra in the lounges! Bearing in mind people were arriving on ferries from Portsmouth and Southampton as well as Lymington, that was A LOT of cyclists. The group I was in were faster than I would normally ride so it was quite the challenge. When we first sat down in the ferry and I saw one of our group wearing a "Team GBR Triathlete" I felt slightly doomed and to be fair, we were pretty fast straight from the onset.... I could see my 2 little energy bars were not quite going to cut it. This was going to take a lot of gritted teeth and hoping for the best. Very early on, Lou was driving (trying to avoid the thousands of cyclists) and overtook me, so she kindly pulled in and took a little video of us going past (pic above) and it was lovely to see her. Do you KNOW how hilly the island is? They just keep coming.. and you sort of can't really enjoy the downhill as you know it will only be short-lived before you start the climb again. I knew that I would do it. If I put my mind to something I will stick to it despite how much I may overthink and worry but I knew that I would finish it, no matter what. A small achievement to many but the start of something new for me and being in a group, God forbid I held anyone up. It was actually a year to the day... it was last year that I went over to the Island to watch Lou and Clare run 50km (although I did sort of wander off and find our island member Sarah and spent a very happy afternoon in her bluebell wood eating home made chocolate brownie but I was thinking of them) but I really missed being part of the event. After so many years of running, I realised how much I missed the build up and anticipation of an endurance event: the sense of camaraderie and being in something together . It was off the back of that that saw me come home and buy my first proper bike - I mean proper as in all the others have been acquired along the way and have been older and heavier than me. I have snuck off and done a few bits and bobs here and there and of course, had the shock of how much work I have to do to keep up with the clubs I have joined but here we are - one year later and a 100km ride around the island. The Military Road is forever etched in my memory - it was only 20 miles or so from the end and my legs were tired. Somehow for a short while, I found myself out of my group and riding alone and as I tried to ride up this endless hill, cycling slower than a toddler dawdling along, I was literally shouting out loud "WHY do I do this to myself? WHAT is this teaching me about myself?".....but keep peddling I did. You see we are funny creatures - the whole psychology behind a challenge is massive. Once I knew I was into the last few miles, I allowed myself to feel and acknowledge how tired my legs were - until we realised we could make the 5pm ferry at which point I found a new energy and powered on faster and stronger than ever - I was NOT going to miss that ferry! As I say, not a big deal to lots of people who did it and nothing like the achievement of Lou and Clare (I can't even begin to imagine how deep they had to dig) BUT I am chuffed and it is the first step on the ladder. It is all relative isn't it? What is not much to one person is a massive challenge to the next - whatever it is, be it physical or otherwise, to succeed in something that requires courage, discipline and commitment is worth celebrating. We have to dig deep to push out of our comfort zone but when we do, the feeling of achievement is so self rewarding. Sometimes I think we forget to reward ourselves or give recognition for when we have gone outside our comfort zone and achieved something and we deserve to remember - a pat on the back or a mental high five even if it is not shared with anyone else can really boost our mood and if we have tried, we ought to (even very quietly) give ourselves a "well done me!" For me, meeting and chatting to like minded people who are all there for their own reasons. Some built like professional athletes, some not, all doing their best - all encouraging and supporting each other. Mind you, the ones who whizzed by at the end while my legs were falling off, saying things like "nearly there".... not so keen on them to be honest! What next? I think I need to buy a road bike now to start the collection... this could become the new passion..... will I keep going... yes of course I will... I think....
By juliet May 1, 2025
USE IT OR LOSE IT! I saw a post on instagram that I shared today. It is a video of a large family posing for a group photo, with many of them sat on the floor. Once the photo has been taken, they try to get up and that is where chaos happens (along with a lot of laughter) as they are clinging onto eachother, trying to get to their feet and getting into a total heap. Very funny... but also not... I was involved in a workshop today at Limewood and the phrase "Use it or Lose it" came up in the presentation. We all know the saying and can use it quite flippantly but how about acknowledging that if we no longer perform that particular activity, our body thinks it is no longer required and we find we CAN'T perform that movement. We need to condition our body and therefor when we first try a new exercise for example, we can feel quite unstable or uncoordinated and lacking in proprioception but as we repeat and practise, the move becomes more familiar and we grow in confidence and ability. Think of some of the sequences we do in Pilates or some of the more complex moves in our weights work - not for the faint of heart and performed only once we have built up the skills and have the coordination and understanding of what needs to go where. However as we stop doing those (or any other)moves they quickly become harder to reach. If you haven't seen it, do please watch "Secrets of The Blue Zones" on Netflix - about communities where people not only live beyond 100 but do so with good physical and mental health. It is a superb watch but the factors are the same in each community and one of them is of course, exercise, be it walking up a practically vertical hill to church or getting onto hands and knees to tend the garden daily. Whatever you do or don't do, please don't be the one rolling around because you cant get up from the floor!! Using it beyond all reason this weekend however are Lou and Clare - please join me in wishing them the very best of luck as they set off together at 6.45am on Saturday to run 100km around the Isle of Wight. If you recall, they did 50km last year and that achievement set them up for going the full distance this year. It also did something else as I went over to watch them and had a bad case of missing out, as I can no longer run and realised how much I missed the training and camaraderie of an endurance event and it was off the back of this experience that I came home and bought a new bike. So a year (and lots of cycling and joining a club) later, I am also off to the island on Sunday to cycle 100km on the IOW Randonnee. I respect that my challenge is nowhere near the scale of what Lou and Clare are undertaking but there are some big old hills over there... good job we have a Bank Holiday Monday to recover!! 
By juliet April 24, 2025
Blink and you miss it. There went Easter. I hope you all had a lovely time doing whatever you got up to and we now enter the summer term. I mean we don't really have terms but if we did, this is it... exams, summer uniform, netball and cricket and dusting off the bbq's. Personally, none of that really applies to me... well perhaps the summer uniform as I drag my shorts blinking and yawning from the back of the drawer. As for netball - I used to absolutely love it. I was always in the school team, playing Centre or Goal defence and did briefly join Lymington as an adult. When my girls were at prep. school, they reinstated a teachers v parents netball match and we won by a country mile -none of us really knew how but me being me, I went full out to start a mum's netball club one evening a week. Before we knew it, "friends" had mentioned us to the Bournemouth and Southampton leagues. This was very, very scary as we were just running up and down shouting "is that allowed? what are we supposed to do here? did that count?" so clearly in our infancy and anyway, we didn't have any matching kit but we did have a lot of fun - well, until someone went over on her ankle which promptly broke and that was the end of that. I have been spared life as a cricket mum or widow but sitting in a deckchair for hours in the sunshine pretending to watch sounds wonderful to me. As I watch my nephews revving up for the start of GCSE's, I thank my lucky stars those hideous days are behind me. I have a vivid memory of sitting at the kitchen table trying to revise while my mother sat outside in the garden listening to Wimbledon on the radio and the two are forever linked for me. Wimbledon with exams not my mother. Apparantly we have wonderful weather next week so dig out your sunscreen and if you can make it, I will be teaching on the beach for Monday and Tuesday's classes. We went through the 34 Moves recently and the upside down/inversion moves are usually the ones that need the most practise. You can really get a deep dive into these moves on the studio equipment if you ever go to a studio but we have several in our mat work - Roll over, Rolling moves, High bridge, Control balance, High Scissors and Bicycle. Remember that Joseph Pilates' philosophy was to perfect on the studio equipment and practise on the mat, hence we use all sorts of equipment and creativity to recreate as close to the studio work as we can for the vast majority of us who do not have access to a fully equipped studio. Why inversion? Gravity can lead to compression of the spine and their little shock absorbers known as discs that can become dehydrated. When we tip our body upside down, we can reverse the gravitational pull. This can help to create more space between the verterbrae and studies suggest that this allows for the discs' soft tissue to absorb moisture and rehydrate and plump up. Exercises like Roll over or the rolling moves can provide a massage for the spine and fascia as well as improving spinal mobility and of course, abdominal strength. (please note in photo above, my right arm is not perfect - my wrist should be flat and my arms could be stronger and better connected to the floor but it was the best pic I could find for now and I wasn't sharing that space with anyone else so it was a mediocre me or nothing!!!) Want more? Well, it is widely believed that being upside down can stimulate the lymphatic system and help with lymph drainage. Also the action of being upside down can increase blood flow to the stomach and therefor help with digestion and digestive issues. You don't need to be performing an advanced Control Balance move - some of the rolling moves and spinal extension we have been working on do the job in a modified way and anyhow, high blood pressure, glaucoma and spinal issues are some of the reasons why full, advanced inversion is not ideal - there are always ways to adapt, modify and practise safely. What we established in our 8am class yesterday was how many ways we can break down, build up and practise. For example, consider the Roll up, Roll down and Roll over as exactly the same exercise but variations come from the position you start from, how you work against gravity and whether it is your upper or lower body that moves. Thinking about Roll over, and going into the inverted positions (where your hands support you from under your hips), we worked on how to open up the chest, the need for strength through the traps, lats and triceps, length in the hamstrings, strength in the core and so much more. So for example, to improve High Scissors, you could consider side lying chest opener, Roll down with arms behind you, Saw and upper body only double leg kick - all moves to open up the chest and strengthen the upper body. In addition, hamstring and hip flexor stretches. Focus on pelvic floor and deep core connection so lots of abdominal and core strengthening- we could (and do) a whole class on moves to prepare us for one single and seemingly evasive exercise. What we do know is that to get better, we need to practise - a few daily exercises relevant to what you need to build on will make ALL the difference so.... with that in mind, I am going to start planning some workshop style classes again as we haven't done this for a while so your input would be welcomed. What moves really challenge you and what would you like to work on? I will get my creative hat on and build a class around the strength, stretch and mobility we need to focus on. What I continue to hear from you (and feel for myself) is the benefit of building strength from lifting weights and how that really helps with your Pilates progess. Isn't it great!!
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