Weekly Wrap up. Week 16. 2025.

Make it a lifestyle, not a duty.

In a week where we are informed that legally a woman born a woman will be referred to as a woman, Rochelle is clearly up to no good (I knew it, I just knew it!! - The Archers. I'm a super fan) and a 400 year old tree is controversially felled in my old home town of Enfield, (referred to as the Guy Fawkes tree as it stood in front of the house where the Gunpowder piot was hatched), we were treated to a fascinating talk on all things stress, blood sugar, cortisol, protein and more. 


I was delighted and not at all surprised to see such a great turnout to join Yvonne and me online on Tuesday evening. She detailed clearly how stress directly impacts our gut health and our ability to digest and I think we all learned so much. Who knew that a couple of small bits of chocolate before our healthy meal can stop the post dinner sugar cravings in their tracks or that humming will massage the pituitary gland? That not all protein is good protein and that all that cortisol can directly stop the absorption and digestion of nutrients, however healthy our food choices are?


What I particularly liked was the way Yvonne delivered this. While everyone was champing at the bit to find out what to eat and how much and when, she kept that right to the end by first educating us on the need for some lifetyle changes; She gave us a few suggestions and asked us to choose a couple that would help reduce stress, induce a happier gut BEFORE we hit the what to eat debate.  When I taught on retreat, we used to talk about the Pillars of life which Yvonne very much supported here in her advice on what life changes to make to give us the best possible place to start from.


Sleep, SMART exercise (high impact plus weights plus stretch, plus gentle walking etc ), breathing work, reduced evening screen time, drinking more water…. While no-one is asked to change everything, there were several suggestions of what we might choose to help us take another step in the right direction and this was something I really appreciated. I am delighted that we are clearly singing from the same hymn sheet as I talk endlessly about the need for long term life change rather than short, quick (unsustainable) fixes. After all, what is the point in carefully measuring out your grains, your proteins, your supplements if you are still stressed, rushing around and not sleeping properly as all the amazing nutrients in the world will not get into the system until you give a happy, healthy system to receive them. 


Of course, we tick lots of boxes - I offer as much variety in our classes as I can to include strength, resistance, stretch, mobility and relaxation as well as breathing work so I was really chuffed that this was included and of course I am talking endlessly about lifestyle changes - we do not and should not turn our entire lives around in one go but small changes that we can adhere to will help us forward to a healthier and therefor happier version of ourselves. 


I love the quote from Victor Frankl in “Man’s search for Meaning - “when we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves”…..that situation could be anything of course but to keep it current, could refer to our weight, health, fitness, sleep patterns….  


Choose one small thing and see how you get on…. Maybe adding one extra walk a week or going to bed earlier a couple of times a week. It doesn’t need to make the front page like what sex you are legally recognised as but it’s a start. 


Yvonne spoke with such a passion on a subject she knows so well and I love working with anyone with that passion - as we know I can bang on all day about my industry but it is because we are so passionate that we love sharing it! 

Please DEAR GOD, the day I drone on and just go into auto repeat, have me carted off, mat and all. 


New in the library this week.

The 34 moves - not my best class I am afraid but it’s a case of do as I say, not as I do. I watched the class back and pulled myself to bits - let’s all not reference my appalling arms in The hundred. Anyway, it’s there!! (Mixed ability) 


Strength - full body, all levels technique class. This is suitable for everyone and is giving lots of  teaching tips and options so please have a look and see how you get on. (Strength) - if you haven't tried strength work before, why not give this one a go?


Lower body burn - lots of plies and glutes work, involving a soft ball and once again, some appalling coordination from me. Apologies! I was covering Clare’s class and teaching on a Wednesday really threw me sideways! That is my excuse and I am keeping it. (Mixed ability). 


Full body strength (circuits style) -Thursday's 8am class using heavy and medium weights. 7 x rounds of 3 exercises in a row, with a break between each round. (strength). Haven't tried a Friday 8am before? why not give it a go?


All levels 34 moves. Thursday’s all levels classes, linking and sequencing the moves in a modified and adapted way. We got through 29 and will cover the last 9 in the next class. (All levels) - everyone would benefit from running though this one to remember how to adapt and modify where needed.


I am delighted to be joining forces with The Arches once more for Serenity Saturday, this time hosted at Balmer Lawn Hotel on Saturday 28th April. 


Come and enjoy a morning of health and wellness with activating and strengthening Pilates, Reiki Refresh and Yoga flow and sound bath. 



It will be a blissful 3 hours complete with refreshments. Please contact The Arches Physiotherapy clinic in Lymington to book.

In addition to our lovely Serenity Saturday at The Arches, I am teaching a workshop at Limewood Herb House in a couple of weeks on women and strength entitled “Living Longer, Living Stronger” alongside fitness manager Justin and author of “Eat your Brain happy” Stephanie J Moore. While I am really looking forward to being a part of this and cannot wait to see what I can learn in addition to what I will be delivering, I am rather chuffed that, by pure chance, we have had our own version with our very own superstar clinical nutritionist Yvonne and all our strength classes! So once again, may I say… we are ahead of the game!

(I may well and frequently do forget what side we are working, lose coordination and oh! my arms in The Hundred!! but never underestimate how much time I spend researching, studying, learning, planning… STILL to be found practising random moves out in the forest while walking the dogs and my voice notes to self on my phone of ideas and things to look up run into hours!)


I hope you have a lovely Easter break and will see you in (gulp) the start of the Summer term! Fingers crossed for some warm weather and more classes outside on the beach (online access as usual). I will do my best to add to the calendar and instagram but of course the what's app group is the most reliable as weather is so changeable.,


Enjoy your Easter eggs and have a really lovely Easter weekend. Let's hope the sun stays shining and I will see you on Thursday- Clare will be back with you on Wed but there are MASSES of classes in the library for you so why not dip your toe in and try a class from a collection you may have previously avoided? 


Jx


By juliet June 25, 2026
Firstly and most importantly, what a wonderful group we are! While several of you very sensibly chose not to travel on the hottest day ever recorded, and some of you are just too far and even overseas, we had a really great turnout for our first Summer Picnic on Wednesday. Ironically I had been searching for somewhere with shelter incase of rain - how could I have possibly known that we would need it for shade. We met in a beautiful venue, with a very welcomed sea breeze and had a great catch up over some amazing picnic offerings. It is always such a joy to bring us together and our social events are something that (as you know), I value enormously. While we continue to grow and reach ever further online, the funny thing is that we are so sociable and the more we meet up for things like this, the better connected we feel when we have a pre class chat online. The photos don't really do it justice and I apologise to those I haven't included but I chose not to use my phone too much and to just capture a few snaps of a really happy lunch. Thank you to those who came. It is always such a pleasure to see you.
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Last weekend was a recognition of some huge achievements. On Friday I, like millions, watched the BBC concert to celebrate Sir David Attenborough’s 100th birthday. What an incredible man who has done so much for our planet and all it’s inhabitants. I found it hugely moving and reminisced about all the years his familiar voice boomed out of our TV screen as my own children grew up watching his documentaries. Of course me being me, I was instantly drawn to how many times he stood up… sat down… stood back up… I also later saw video footage of him arriving in the car outside The Royal Albert Hall and alighting from it totally unaided and just like during the concert, standing up and siting down with control and balance. My goodness me, if ever there was a lesson right there to never just let your brain turn to mush! While some are in such a rush to retire, he is a superb example of how beneficial it is to have a passion, to keep your mind and body active, to find something you love and to commit to it. Wasn’t it great to see that little clip of him, days away from celebrating 100 years, still working, recording the new Blue Planet! Despite his global fame and unparalleled success, he remains still so humble, so gentle and respectful. We could all benefit from being a bit more David. Onto Badminton Horse trials and to see the remarkable Ros Canter (as people have cracked the Romeo jokes to me all my life, how she must cope, I can’t imagine) winning Badminton and going on to to make history with Lordships Graffalo as the first same rider /horse partnership to win Badminton together 3 times. Not only that but she had a baby just 12 weeks ago!! To be so composed and deliver such stimulating interviews before she had even taken her riding hat off with her baby coo’ing on her hip and young daughter wrapped around her leg… what dedication to her sport. Keeping it real, she had to dash off just before her dressage test to express milk as her boobs were too big. Love it! Then the BAFTA’s on Sunday and while Adolescence predictably swept the boards, it was Martin Lewis’ speech on receiving a special award that moved me. He spoke of how he found out he had been nominated 42 years to the day after his mother had died when he was 12, and I quote “For six years, barring school, I barely left the house, and now I am picking up a BAFTA” He then spoke bravely and a little tearfully to tell whoever was watching that yes, you can turn your life around, you can fight your demons and find your way back (and being the brilliant human that he is, he finished his speech on the primetime platform he had, to bash the chancellor over student fees). How brave and what a strong message. Another big character devoting himself to sharing his passion and educating others. Earlier last week, Rachel Entrekin made history by beating both men and women to win the Cocodona ultra marathon in Arizona. "What is that" you might well ask! Well, recognised as one of the world’s toughest ultras, it is 253 miles long including numerous elevations and desert. She tells of surviving on mashed potatoes (easy to swallow, don’t waste energy on chewing) and 19 minutes’ sleep over 56 hours. What an unbelievable achievement - to keep pushing when everything in your body is screaming at you to stop. The power of the mind over the body. However, was it not put into perspective if, like me, you happened to watch The Antiques Roadshow, presenting on Sunday at Bletchley park, based around artefacts and memories from WW2. What exceptional men and women who performed acts of unimaginable courage and selflessness. Their stories deserve to be heard over and over again. Simple, everyday folk who found themselves in uniform, fighting for their country. Can we even begin to imagine? We can’t all break world records or win awards. We can’t all expect stratospheric careers and global success. However, we can all change our lives and impact those around us, in even the smallest ways. I think if we look back and reflect on experiences we have survived, we can ALL think of challenges and situations we thought we could never get through, times that seemed never ending, pain that seemed too much to bear. Yet here we are. We are all warriors. We are all world champions in our own lives. It can be easy to overlook our achievements but helpful to reflect sometimes in order to see how brilliant we all are. Maybe you had the courage to leave a job or friendship or even a marriage that made you unhappy. Maybe you finally took up that activity or started that project you had always put off as you were scared of failing. Maybe you just finally learned to say no sometimes. All big wins in their own right and all worthy of celebrating, even quietly and privately. I was determined to clear and organise the chaos that is my garage. Stored furniture, xmas decs I don’t want any more: you know how it is. As a bit of a control freak, this disorganised clutter was constantly chipping away at my OCD brain. RIGHT! A couple of Fridays ago, I marched over, opened the door, looked at the enormous job in front of me, shut the door and went back to the house, totally overwhelmed. Instead I lay on the sofa, stuck on my audio book and gave myself the afternoon off with a note to self - it's Friday. You need to stop! Fast forward to last weekend and having got a few other ducks in a row, I opened that door again and worked my way through, selling some things on eBay, doing a tip run, stacking and sorting. I was SO ridiculously pleased with myself. Will it benefit anyone or make any difference in the world? No, of course not but I had achieved something that showed me how important it is to listen to myself. I recognised that on the other Friday, choosing to postpone it was the right thing to do rather than seeing it as a cop out and that giving myself space and time to come back to it was the better option. Just a little win, but a win nonetheless. I didn't win Badminton or get a lifetime achievement award, but I know how many of you will feel my joy! It is a tough old world out there and to steal a well used quote “comparison is the thief of joy”. If you find yourself “falling short”, perhaps take a moment to consider who you are measuring yourself against - is it a fair and reasonable comparison? Are you taking into account what you have already ticked off and achieved in your day. My goodness! this is something I have had to work SO hard at; am I falling short? Could I have done more? and learning to say to myself “what you did today was enough’. I find the following a really useful tool - if you find yourself tutting over what you haven’t done or getting upset over not matching up where you think you fall short, take a moment to focus on what today, you HAVE done. It may not be ground breaking but acknowledge, recognise and reward yourself for what you HAVE achieved, even if you just got dressed and faced the world. Sometimes, that is enough. A brilliant piece of advice I was given was this - talk to yourself the same way you would talk to your best friend. If they are having a wobble, a moment of insecurity or self doubt you would instantly jump in to lift them up, point out their strengths and successes, show them what they have done well so why not to yourself? Learn to be your own best friend. No-one wants to revisit that terrible experience or that dreadful pain or that life changing loss but sometimes it is useful to reflect on that time and remember how strong you were, how you DID get through it, how you ARE still here and that is part of what makes you amazing. Jay Shetty says in his book Think like a monk, “Be the person you would want to be in a relationship with”. Maybe that means pulling your socks up. Maybe that means recognising how wonderful you are! I'll leave that with you. Wrapping up, this week I received an email following last week's blog from a friend and fellow teacher who I worked with a few years ago and I share - "Hi Juliet!. A good article about Pilates and running......I have now run over 50,000 miles and recently put in a 31 minute 5k at age 80. I hold my Club's record for running (& finishing before the cut-off) their annual 10 mile cross country championship 54 years apart (1969 & 2023). My brother has replacement hips and my sister replacement knees - neither run nor do Pilates....." I think we are all warriors deep down. We just sometimes need to remind ourselves! If you are still unsure about joining us online and would like to see more of what we get up to, here is a link to a 30 min pure mat mixed ability class. Have a look and always come back to me with your comments and questions. For just £45 a month , you can access 7 live classes (in a typical week) plus access to a huge library plus me on the end of the phone or FaceTime to discuss any areas where you may want more support plus the invitation to request specific classes plus social events and get togethers.
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Members news. Week upcoming : Bank Holiday Monday - class running as usual and this coming Wednesday, 2 x 30 min classes. Details in library. As I am away a few days here and there in May/June, I will continue to put in extra classes now and then to keep everyone topped up. It's all about give and take! Following on from requests this week, upcoming we have a Roll over/Control Balance workshop (Thursday 8am), Back care (Thursday 9am) and Body Conditioning, sculpt and tone style (Wed 8am). All updates will always be in your live calendar. We welcome 4 new members this week and can't wait to see you on the screen! We can now add Portugal to our community! That means that currently, we are beaming into the UK from Cornwall to Yorkshire, Spain, Italy, Greece, France, Germany and now Portugal! We are so much more than Pilates and our community continues to support in so many ways. While a couple of our treasured members are going through some hefty challenges, I am so pleased that you use our online connection as a form of support and to use the friendship of your fellow members. Don't forget you can log in 15 mins early for a natter before class and on Thursdays, I will leave the meeting open after we finish the 9.45am class for anyone to stay on and have a chat. Grab a coffee and log back in even if you weren't in the class. If you would like to join our "Friends of JP's" what's app group , let me know - we are slowly growing and it is a friendly place for a chat and check in, (and a grumble about how tough the class was!). Have a lovely weekend, Jx 
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I want to keep it as on point and brief as I can and here are some cold, hard facts. Doing SOMETHING is a lot better than doing NOTHING! Whatever equipment you use and program you follow is far less important than the fact that you show up. Regularly and consistently. Only 30% of adults meet the resistance training guidelines and this drops to as low 10% for older adults. What is required? Training all major muscle groups at least once a week Aiming for 2 - 3 sets per exercises Using a weight that is getting challenging by the end of the set Moving through full range of movement. Now, why this is good news is that this can be acheived in whatever form of exercise takes your fancy and over here on our Pilates mat, we tick a lot of those boxes. Going into the 100 and wishing for the end, sitting tall in your Spine Twist and pushing for JUST ONE MORE rep is meeting this! We go through full range of movement, we use bodyweight as well as small equipment, so even if you are not lifting weights, you are doing your bit. (N.b. provided this is min. 3 times a week and you are pushing yourself to max ability in each of those sessions in one way or another and bringing in bands, small weights etc for additional resistance) WHAT COUNTS BODYWEIGHT EXERCISES AT HOME BANDS, BALLS, BODY WEIGHT, LOOPS A QUICK EXPRESS SET WHEN YOU GET BACK FROM YOUR RUN/WALKING THE DOG 15 MINS IN THE KITCHEN - YOU DON'T NEED TO COMPLICATE IT IT DOESNT NEED TO BE FANCY, STRUCTURED OR ELABORATE. IT JUST NEEDS TO HAPPEN Generally ALL types of resistance training work, as long as they are performed with high efforts which means that you get to a point where you are almost at failure. In other words, choose what you enjoy as you are more likely to stick to it and work harder at ut. CONSISTENCY IS KEY and the BEST exercise programme to do is the one you enjoy and will be more likely to stick at! MEMBERS. We have multiple classes involving strength and resistance every week. NON MEMBERS - I am just putting dates together for another 4 week strength program. Please email me if you are interested. More details to follow (I am delighted to be starting a 4 week strength training session with my local running club so I really am doing my best to share the love! )
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