Week 52. Goodbye 2025

Well, we did it! We knocked 2025 out of the park....

Well, we did it! We knocked 2025 out of the park! 


What a year we have had. We have welcomed lots of new members (with open arms - several this week!), we have waved goodbye (temporarily I hope) to some of our members and our online community is bigger than ever. As we add Italy to our reach, we can now boast a weekly reach into 7 countries. 


SO MUCH MORE than Pilates....

We have had a busy year. Walking in Bolderwood followed by hot chocolate, and two visits to the Isle of Wight, one for a lovely walk over Tennyson Downs and a pub lunch and one for our fabulous Revitalise day at Sarah’s flower farm where we painted, Pilates’ed and walked along the river followed by a delicious lunch. We had a private tour of Battersea Power Station followed by lunch at Dishoom, and we hunted for ghosts on a Halloween tour of Lymington. We have had monthly challenges and been educated with a mixture of specialists in the world of health and wellness in our Teatime Talks. We had a fantastic Summer solstice class in the coastal grounds at Pylewell and met regularly on the beach for Teach from the Beach including a very sunny birthday class for me with tea and cake. We had our Autumn “Introduction to weights” extra classes and celebrated our 5 year anniversary online by meeting up for a class back where it all started in Beaulieu village hall.

 This year we have seen a new knee, a new hip, a broken ankle (not from my classes!) 2 new puppies and 3 weddings and of course we wrapped it all up with our annual highlight - our Christmas lunch where this year 50 of us met to welcome the start of Christmas, the end of a busy year and to enjoy each other’s company.

For my part, I have been as busy as ever. I absolutely terrified myself by teaching on multiple screens for my 5 day instagram live challenge earlier in the year, enjoyed teaching pop up classes at Embers campsite and returned once again to Chris Evan’s Carfest to teach. I accepted an invitation to teach at the Zanzibar Yoga festival in 2026 and had a new experience of teaching a Pilates class to a bridal party on the day of their wedding. I have enjoyed teaching classes for 2 wellness and revitalise days for The Arches and taught at Limewood’s “Women and strength” specialist day in the summer. I had a week of Pilates in Crete with MK Pilates and enjoyed it so much, I am returning next year and taking Fiona, Fiona and Jan with me. I celebrated 2 years alchohol free, still one of the best life changing decions I have made. I I went to Athens, again with Michael King for a week of reformer training and have attended several online seminars on Pilates. I listened to several Pilates and health and wellness podcasts while I was away in December in addition to practising ideas and making notes for the upcoming year. 

I always strive to keep things fresh, progressive and motivating - a little of you what you know and come to expect but never enough that you can anticipate or assume! To that end, we have mixed classes up and I bring in as much variation as possible. For example we ended this year by shortening our Friday weight training classes to a clean 30 mins followed by 15 mins of intense mobility - in effect 2 separate and short classes that have been accessed a lot in the library. We have had Pilates “funk” where I have poetic license to put a spin on familiar moves and add a little power or HIIT or something else to just change things up. 

Our library has grown and with 12 categories to choose from and several hundred cases, I am hugely proud to see nearly 60 hours a week of access while I was away proving how disciplined and committed you are! Being online gives us SO much more! 

What's next? 

2026. I am working on new classes and themes, focus and areas to work on. As reformer mania continues to sweep the country, I am preparing more classes to learn how we can replicate the large studio equipment on the mat. Studio classes are expensive and not available to all and mat work was always intended to be included so (Lou’s idea) I am going to have some classes where I bring my reformer into the studio (- who am I kidding? Pull it 3 feet across the floor!) So I can hop on and off it to demonstrate what we are aiming to achieve and we can get as close to the experience as possible. 

We will continue to lift weights - SO important…… Pilates is a fantastic method of exercise but it isn’t enough. Lifting weights is essential for the ageing body but it isn’t enough. Stretch and mobility is a MUST to include in our weekly exercise schedule but it doesn’t tick every box - so we have IT ALL COVERED. You get to choose what to join live, what to select from the library and continue to have me on the end of the phone with any queries. 

While the Wednesday classes are discontinued, I am bringing in “random and spontaneous” classes - where I see a gap in my diary and think maybe I will offer a teatime relaxation class or a quick Saturday morning 20 mins power class. Make sure you read your emails as these will be ad hoc and as and when


I have decided to start stepping back from face to face work as my online work grows and as I look towards more travel, less face to face commitment and being able to take you with me. This year I have taught or posted online from the Austrian alps to Athens to Wales to Tanzania to Carfest to Crete to Cornwall. 

To that end, this Spring term will be my last one teaching at The Arches. Not an easy decision as I have really loved being a part of the team and working with all the wonderful clients I have met. However, I look towards new challenges and thank all those I have had the pleasure of working with and of course invite you all to join our online community!


The weekly wrap up may become the fortnightly.... with direct emails to online members of any calendar updates - (sorry, if you don't read your emails, not sure what else I can do....!)


All that remains is for me to wish you all a very, very happy, healthy 2026. As I pack the decs away, tidy up and start adding new content to our online calendar, I am thoroughly refreshed, motivated and ready for THE YEAR OF THE HORSE…… and I quote… .”The year of the HORSE… the shedding and completion year of the snake in 2025 cleared the path for THE HORSE. The year of the horse sets the intention to begin anew, welcoming freedom and trusting relationships. Energy alignment of creativity, taking precise action while harnessing charisma and passion will launch a successful 2026!”


                 2025 Year of the Snake                       

                              Inner growth                                   

                                  Renewal                                       

Sacred pause.  

Transformation 

Subconscious healing 

Trust 

Shedding 

Soul work 

Spiritual depth 



2026 Year of the Horse 

Clarity 

Freedom 

Courage 

Expansion 

Movement 

Breakthroughs

Intentional action 

Boldness

Magnetic energy 

Momentum 


So ….. are you going to watch from the sidelines or are you going to jump on and hold tight for the ride? 


See you online next year xx 


By juliet May 14, 2026
Last weekend was a recognition of some huge achievements. On Friday I, like millions, watched the BBC concert to celebrate Sir David Attenborough’s 100th birthday. What an incredible man who has done so much for our planet and all it’s inhabitants. I found it hugely moving and reminisced about all the years his familiar voice boomed out of our TV screen as my own children grew up watching his documentaries. Of course me being me, I was instantly drawn to how many times he stood up… sat down… stood back up… I also later saw video footage of him arriving in the car outside The Royal Albert Hall and alighting from it totally unaided and just like during the concert, standing up and siting down with control and balance. My goodness me, if ever there was a lesson right there to never just let your brain turn to mush! While some are in such a rush to retire, he is a superb example of how beneficial it is to have a passion, to keep your mind and body active, to find something you love and to commit to it. Wasn’t it great to see that little clip of him, days away from celebrating 100 years, still working, recording the new Blue Planet! Despite his global fame and unparalleled success, he remains still so humble, so gentle and respectful. We could all benefit from being a bit more David. Onto Badminton Horse trials and to see the remarkable Ros Canter (as people have cracked the Romeo jokes to me all my life, how she must cope, I can’t imagine) winning Badminton and going on to to make history with Lordships Graffalo as the first same rider /horse partnership to win Badminton together 3 times. Not only that but she had a baby just 12 weeks ago!! To be so composed and deliver such stimulating interviews before she had even taken her riding hat off with her baby coo’ing on her hip and young daughter wrapped around her leg… what dedication to her sport. Keeping it real, she had to dash off just before her dressage test to express milk as her boobs were too big. Love it! Then the BAFTA’s on Sunday and while Adolescence predictably swept the boards, it was Martin Lewis’ speech on receiving a special award that moved me. He spoke of how he found out he had been nominated 42 years to the day after his mother had died when he was 12, and I quote “For six years, barring school, I barely left the house, and now I am picking up a BAFTA” He then spoke bravely and a little tearfully to tell whoever was watching that yes, you can turn your life around, you can fight your demons and find your way back (and being the brilliant human that he is, he finished his speech on the primetime platform he had, to bash the chancellor over student fees). How brave and what a strong message. Another big character devoting himself to sharing his passion and educating others. Earlier last week, Rachel Entrekin made history by beating both men and women to win the Cocodona ultra marathon in Arizona. "What is that" you might well ask! Well, recognised as one of the world’s toughest ultras, it is 253 miles long including numerous elevations and desert. She tells of surviving on mashed potatoes (easy to swallow, don’t waste energy on chewing) and 19 minutes’ sleep over 56 hours. What an unbelievable achievement - to keep pushing when everything in your body is screaming at you to stop. The power of the mind over the body. However, was it not put into perspective if, like me, you happened to watch The Antiques Roadshow, presenting on Sunday at Bletchley park, based around artefacts and memories from WW2. What exceptional men and women who performed acts of unimaginable courage and selflessness. Their stories deserve to be heard over and over again. Simple, everyday folk who found themselves in uniform, fighting for their country. Can we even begin to imagine? We can’t all break world records or win awards. We can’t all expect stratospheric careers and global success. However, we can all change our lives and impact those around us, in even the smallest ways. I think if we look back and reflect on experiences we have survived, we can ALL think of challenges and situations we thought we could never get through, times that seemed never ending, pain that seemed too much to bear. Yet here we are. We are all warriors. We are all world champions in our own lives. It can be easy to overlook our achievements but helpful to reflect sometimes in order to see how brilliant we all are. Maybe you had the courage to leave a job or friendship or even a marriage that made you unhappy. Maybe you finally took up that activity or started that project you had always put off as you were scared of failing. Maybe you just finally learned to say no sometimes. All big wins in their own right and all worthy of celebrating, even quietly and privately. I was determined to clear and organise the chaos that is my garage. Stored furniture, xmas decs I don’t want any more: you know how it is. As a bit of a control freak, this disorganised clutter was constantly chipping away at my OCD brain. RIGHT! A couple of Fridays ago, I marched over, opened the door, looked at the enormous job in front of me, shut the door and went back to the house, totally overwhelmed. Instead I lay on the sofa, stuck on my audio book and gave myself the afternoon off with a note to self - it's Friday. You need to stop! Fast forward to last weekend and having got a few other ducks in a row, I opened that door again and worked my way through, selling some things on eBay, doing a tip run, stacking and sorting. I was SO ridiculously pleased with myself. Will it benefit anyone or make any difference in the world? No, of course not but I had achieved something that showed me how important it is to listen to myself. I recognised that on the other Friday, choosing to postpone it was the right thing to do rather than seeing it as a cop out and that giving myself space and time to come back to it was the better option. Just a little win, but a win nonetheless. I didn't win Badminton or get a lifetime achievement award, but I know how many of you will feel my joy! It is a tough old world out there and to steal a well used quote “comparison is the thief of joy”. If you find yourself “falling short”, perhaps take a moment to consider who you are measuring yourself against - is it a fair and reasonable comparison? Are you taking into account what you have already ticked off and achieved in your day. My goodness! this is something I have had to work SO hard at; am I falling short? Could I have done more? and learning to say to myself “what you did today was enough’. I find the following a really useful tool - if you find yourself tutting over what you haven’t done or getting upset over not matching up where you think you fall short, take a moment to focus on what today, you HAVE done. It may not be ground breaking but acknowledge, recognise and reward yourself for what you HAVE achieved, even if you just got dressed and faced the world. Sometimes, that is enough. A brilliant piece of advice I was given was this - talk to yourself the same way you would talk to your best friend. If they are having a wobble, a moment of insecurity or self doubt you would instantly jump in to lift them up, point out their strengths and successes, show them what they have done well so why not to yourself? Learn to be your own best friend. No-one wants to revisit that terrible experience or that dreadful pain or that life changing loss but sometimes it is useful to reflect on that time and remember how strong you were, how you DID get through it, how you ARE still here and that is part of what makes you amazing. Jay Shetty says in his book Think like a monk, “Be the person you would want to be in a relationship with”. Maybe that means pulling your socks up. Maybe that means recognising how wonderful you are! I'll leave that with you. Wrapping up, this week I received an email following last week's blog from a friend and fellow teacher who I worked with a few years ago and I share - "Hi Juliet!. A good article about Pilates and running......I have now run over 50,000 miles and recently put in a 31 minute 5k at age 80. I hold my Club's record for running (& finishing before the cut-off) their annual 10 mile cross country championship 54 years apart (1969 & 2023). My brother has replacement hips and my sister replacement knees - neither run nor do Pilates....." I think we are all warriors deep down. We just sometimes need to remind ourselves! If you are still unsure about joining us online and would like to see more of what we get up to, here is a link to a 30 min pure mat mixed ability class. Have a look and always come back to me with your comments and questions. For just £45 a month , you can access 7 live classes (in a typical week) plus access to a huge library plus me on the end of the phone or FaceTime to discuss any areas where you may want more support plus the invitation to request specific classes plus social events and get togethers.
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Members news. Week upcoming : Bank Holiday Monday - class running as usual and this coming Wednesday, 2 x 30 min classes. Details in library. As I am away a few days here and there in May/June, I will continue to put in extra classes now and then to keep everyone topped up. It's all about give and take! Following on from requests this week, upcoming we have a Roll over/Control Balance workshop (Thursday 8am), Back care (Thursday 9am) and Body Conditioning, sculpt and tone style (Wed 8am). All updates will always be in your live calendar. We welcome 4 new members this week and can't wait to see you on the screen! We can now add Portugal to our community! That means that currently, we are beaming into the UK from Cornwall to Yorkshire, Spain, Italy, Greece, France, Germany and now Portugal! We are so much more than Pilates and our community continues to support in so many ways. While a couple of our treasured members are going through some hefty challenges, I am so pleased that you use our online connection as a form of support and to use the friendship of your fellow members. Don't forget you can log in 15 mins early for a natter before class and on Thursdays, I will leave the meeting open after we finish the 9.45am class for anyone to stay on and have a chat. Grab a coffee and log back in even if you weren't in the class. If you would like to join our "Friends of JP's" what's app group , let me know - we are slowly growing and it is a friendly place for a chat and check in, (and a grumble about how tough the class was!). Have a lovely weekend, Jx 
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I want to keep it as on point and brief as I can and here are some cold, hard facts. Doing SOMETHING is a lot better than doing NOTHING! Whatever equipment you use and program you follow is far less important than the fact that you show up. Regularly and consistently. Only 30% of adults meet the resistance training guidelines and this drops to as low 10% for older adults. What is required? Training all major muscle groups at least once a week Aiming for 2 - 3 sets per exercises Using a weight that is getting challenging by the end of the set Moving through full range of movement. Now, why this is good news is that this can be acheived in whatever form of exercise takes your fancy and over here on our Pilates mat, we tick a lot of those boxes. Going into the 100 and wishing for the end, sitting tall in your Spine Twist and pushing for JUST ONE MORE rep is meeting this! We go through full range of movement, we use bodyweight as well as small equipment, so even if you are not lifting weights, you are doing your bit. (N.b. provided this is min. 3 times a week and you are pushing yourself to max ability in each of those sessions in one way or another and bringing in bands, small weights etc for additional resistance) WHAT COUNTS BODYWEIGHT EXERCISES AT HOME BANDS, BALLS, BODY WEIGHT, LOOPS A QUICK EXPRESS SET WHEN YOU GET BACK FROM YOUR RUN/WALKING THE DOG 15 MINS IN THE KITCHEN - YOU DON'T NEED TO COMPLICATE IT IT DOESNT NEED TO BE FANCY, STRUCTURED OR ELABORATE. IT JUST NEEDS TO HAPPEN Generally ALL types of resistance training work, as long as they are performed with high efforts which means that you get to a point where you are almost at failure. In other words, choose what you enjoy as you are more likely to stick to it and work harder at ut. CONSISTENCY IS KEY and the BEST exercise programme to do is the one you enjoy and will be more likely to stick at! MEMBERS. We have multiple classes involving strength and resistance every week. NON MEMBERS - I am just putting dates together for another 4 week strength program. Please email me if you are interested. More details to follow (I am delighted to be starting a 4 week strength training session with my local running club so I really am doing my best to share the love! )
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