Week 51. Weddings, Christmas and Pyjamas.

Weddings, pyjamas classes and working out with concrete weights

Well, that was a wonderful trip. We had the very happiest time and I was so proud of my beautiful daughter and my very wonderful new son in law!  If ever someone has found their soul mate, it is those two!

I learned quickly to accept that "this is Tanzania" when it comes to what will be done and when. The most significant example being a very important delivery for the set up. Work went on for  several days beforehand to get everything ready  and deliveries were arriving daily with crockery, chairs, tables etc...  - as this particular  delivery got delayed and became less and less likely (despite so much planning in advance), in the end, Rosie set up a what's app group amongst her local friends, sending out an SOS and the response was incredible. Within hours, cars started arriving and we worked alongside an army of helpers all day to bring it all together. It made me so proud to see what a fantastic community she is a part of and how actually, this only added value as this was all done with love and made it all the more personal.

The wedding was perfect in every way. Very organic, very relaxed and a huge amount of love. Small bridesmaids running around barefoot, a guard of honour made up of Cricket bats, a good luck double rainbow a couple of days before, rain in the morning (good luck in Tanzania) followed by a sunny afternoon.

As you know, I carried "The dress" in a carry on case. 25 hours of travel door to door. THE most stressful thing, I cannot tell you. When it came to steam ironing it, I practised on various times before I approached it... and found it a mix of mindfulness mixed with abject terror. I ended up doing an hour or so most days in the lead up.  I was an absolute Rottweiler about protecting it and was very, very relieved to hand it over!

I was a very, very proud Mother of the bride and was overwhelmed with everyone coming up to meet me and tell me what a fabulous daughter I have!

Check out my dumbells! I went to some fitness classes with Rosie and as you may imagine, equipment can be tricky to access.

 Our weights were made from metal poles with concrete each end - different weight options depending on the size of the buckets used to set the concrete and they worked brilliantly. 


I didnt obsess but I did practise what I preach. I wouldn't be much good if I gave out all this advice but didn't follow it myself. I always find it easier to eat healthily in warm weather and also to drink gallons of water. I did a bit of something nearly every day, but only 30 mins or so to keep ticking over. Some Pilates, a couple of classes with weights, some stretch and mobilty and A LOT of rest! 

There is a lovely saying in Swahili- "pole, pole" which means slowly, slowly and slowly, slowly I settled into that. It gave me space to think too about 2026 and how sometimes, less is more. 

I am thrilled to see how many of you have been using the library. I get the data each week and last week you worked through a total of 57 hours of classes - that is just fantastic!! Don't worry - I don't go into who has done what.... I could but honestly? who has time in their life? Well done those who have and doesn't the library work well! Extra well done to those who connected with fellow members to be accountable and not just roll over for an extra hour in bed!

You can Bah humbug all you like but the fact is that we are one week away which means... 


Pyjamas, Christmas t shirts, daft hats, bauble earrings are ALL totally acceptable and normal leggings and tops are not!! Please note we have specifiic Pyjamas classes (perk of being online and don't know about you but I will be popping a sports bra on!) but come on! get in the spirirt!! 


There will be 30 min classes so that you can squeeze in a class before the rest of the house wakes up but I also know that this is a very busy time of year for many so if we don't see you, we completely understand. 


WEDNESDAYS. Clare is moving into new ventures and I have decided for the time being, from Jan 26, to stop the Wed am classes. I gave a lot of thought to bringing someone else in but decided that Juliet's Pilates is just that! It is me and no one is going to value you like I do. Doing a couple of months of Wednesdays reminded me why I had stopped it in the first place - I need a break in the week but will be bringing in bonus classes here and there and as always, have a few plans up my sleeve - you know me! I hope the last couple of weeks has helped you really connect with the library so you can always pick a class on demand to get your Wednesday fix.  



I am sure you don't mind a rather brief blog this week and I cannot wait to see you all again - I have really missed you.

Right - off to dig out some sparkly leggings and find my Xmas t shirt. See you soon and have a fabulous weekend.

Jx

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